"The only way I could see it going well is if it polarized people into wanting a different, more positive experience," she told A Plus.
Just like experiencing a bad relationship can teach someone how to make their next relationship better, she thinks watching one on TV could have a similar effect.
Women are vicious to one another; the men are all 'bros' looking to exploit the women," says Michael Bronski, Professor of Practice in Media and Activism in Studies of Women, Gender, and Sexuality at Harvard University.
"These shows are really the underside of what we might consider the worst of heterosexuality, put up for entertainment." entertaining — particularly to women.
And that's why they have the most to gain, or lose, from watching them.
Dating coach and founder of eflirt, a digital dating service, Laurie Davis Edwards believes the appeal is rooted in dating reality TV shows' role as "the modern equivalent of Disney princess movies" that so many young girls were taught to idealize.
The foremost one being the tendency to go out with multiple people simultaneously and the surge of emotions that comes with that.
"People who are dating now go through that same thing, just on a less dramatic scale," she affirms.
"The biggest thing I think it brings to viewers is that love exists," she says, regardless of whether that love resembles anything they may experience in their own lives or not.Dating shows have become our common guilty pleasure, although we may not want to admit it.For over a decade now, we've replaced rom-coms with rom-competitions."Women get in good relationships with men because they have good relationships with women." Essentially all modern dating reality TV shows have shown the opposite, but that must be because someone — and in this genre that "someone" is overwhelmingly heterosexual women — wants to see it.While all adults in the 18-49 demographic give , and shows like it, wouldn't survive the first rose ceremony.
As the viewing crowd with the greatest power of attraction — to advertisers, anyway — women are in (remote) control.